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Dating Tech Spec V1.0

By Olesya Kovalskaya · original post on Instagram

  1. Dating Tech Spec V1.0. Position: boyfriend. Status: on hold, zero capacity. Not a love-language quiz, an API spec for accessing me.
  2. 01 Core requirements: Must have. Eight requirements, from genuinely single and emotionally available to comfortable with a direct, ambitious woman.
  3. 02 Communication protocol: Talk to me. Valid versus invalid responses. No penalty for honesty, huge penalty for ambiguity.
  4. 03 Initiation engine: Move toward me. Expected outputs, unprompted, and receiving mode.
  5. 04 Conflict handling: Stay in the room. Two adults regulating themselves and talking directly.
  6. 05 Consistency: Continuity, not constant. Words, actions, lifestyle and priorities aligned.
  7. 06 Critical bugs: Instant system warnings. Nine red flags, from ghosting after making plans to circumstances as a permanent excuse.
  8. 07 Final requirement: Don't date potential. Date current operating behaviour.

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